Christians follow a rule book, it’s called the Bible. We are not supposed to remove anything from it or add anything to it. Sin is sin. Just because we don’t always like following the rules of the Bible, doesn’t mean we get to change them based on how you feel. We all struggle with sin, but that doesn’t mean we can change the meaning of it to suite our wants. Jesus welcomes and loves all people but He does not love our sins. Regardless of what any of us believe, we all have to answer for our sins in the end.